戀愛沒有假期：The Holiday

今天早上起床看重看了HBO的The Holiday，看到其中的一段話，我覺得還蠻有道理的。

Iris: Shush. You broke my heart. And you acted like somehow it was my fault, my misunderstanding, and I was too in love with you to ever be mad at you, so I just punished myself! For years! But you waltzing in here on my lovely Christmas holiday, and telling me that you don't want to lose me whilst you're about to get MARRIED, somehow newly entitles me to say, it's over. This - This twisted, toxic THING between us, is finally finished! I'm miraculously done being in love with you! Ha! I've got a life to start living.
[Picks up Jasper's jacket, walking to the door]
Iris: And you're not going to be in it.
Jasper: Darling.
Iris: Now I've got somewhere really important to be, and（
[Opens the door]
Iris: Now!
Jasper: What exactly has got into you?
Iris: I don't know.
[Pushes Jasper out the door]
Iris: But I think what I've got is something slightly resembling, gumption.

在當喜歡上一個人的時候，你總是會忽略對方的缺點，總想著是不是自己做錯了些什麼，自己該怎樣改進....等等。有時候其實是對方故意讓你陷入都是你的錯這樣的情境，你難過而自責，卻不懂的珍惜的人所糟蹋。

其實我覺得有些人就是很過份，總是吃了你的好處，卻又捨不得放棄，總是在你的感情中飛舞著玩弄著，最後逼的你自己扮演黑臉，讓他們完美的人生不受到一點損害，這樣自私的人總是讓我們無法轉換另一段感情!他們從來不會輕易的認錯，輕易的說出他們得不對，只會巧妙的安置好陷阱讓你跳入，並在上面伸出他們雙手，說要幫我們，而我們卻忘記挖陷阱的是他們，還感謝他們把我們救出。

人的感情總是如此的奧妙，當你有天看開了，你才發現你在懲罰自己( I just punished myself!)，然後對自己感到抱歉，怎麼沒有善待自己，然後一笑置之，真正的忘記那種自私的人（ You have got to get the hell out.），開始珍惜身邊的事物，找到新的愛情。